Get someone to help with kids:

Find someone you trust and train them to care of your kids, someone who will be invested in their care. If your child is school-age, ask the school staff, even the school nurse, or family for help – or help finding help. The key is to find someone you trust implicitly to have your child’s best interests at heart- skills can be trained, attitude and investment can’t.

You may have a Care at Home program through Medicaid that will assist you with nurse care. You may qualify for financial assistance for non-nurse help.